Do i understand ?

Allah (SWT)’s Hukum is until the day of judgement and if some Shaykh tells you that its discouraged in India in 1929 and encouraged in 1643 in Damascus it is between the Shaykh and Allah (SWT)!.

For me, Allah (SWT) has declared this matter permissible until the day of judgement.
                                                 UNBELIEVABLE!

If a Shaykh of UK saw a dream about this, does it strengthen Allah (SWT)’s Hukum? And if the Shaykh didn’t have a dream does it diminish Allah (SWT)’s Hukum? 
Lastly a person CANNOT understand this UNLESS they understand Jihad & Khilafah! 

A person living in a cosy home in London will not get it! But the 23 year old widow of a young Mujahid with 3 girls would instantly get it!

A person living in a cosy home in New York will not get it! But a 30 year Muslimah who cannot get married or is a divorcee with 3 girls would instantly get it!

A person living in a cosy home in Chicago will not get it! But a 30 year Muslim man married to his Pakistani cousin who can't speak proper English and can't engage him intellectually would instantly get it!

A person living in a cosy home in Helsinki will not get it! But a 38 year Muslim man who is still fit and healthy but his 36 year wife (with 5 children) who is unable to sexually satisfy him would instantly get it!

- Shaykh Madni and Shaykh Colonel Hardstone

Taddud is "evil" ?

In Pakistan, Dowry has become Farz. A girl cannot get married if her father doesn't give alot of dowry. Now tell me, you are a boy living in Pakistan. You have two options. If you marry this first girl, her parents will give you a furnished flat, a car, clothes, a job, cash.. Everything. You name it. The other girl, you don't get anything except some clothes and a watch. Considering the fact that the first girl is not as deeni as the second one. Honestly speaking who will you marry? The first one of course  No matter how many Fazaail you are told of a deeni girl you will never marry her. No matter what your deeni background is. This is what's happening in Pakistan

So who would marry a disabled deeni girl, when he has thousands of girls to choose from ? 

I've seen my aunts go on GIRL HUNTING for their sons. They would leave in the morning and return at night. They would have lists with them. Used to see like 5-10 girls daily. And what were the reasons to reject girls? Her nose is not right. Her face is a little fat. She is a little over weight. She's not perfect. She is a little dark. She's not very fair. She can't speak english. Her father doesn't have a respectable business. Well her mother was eww ......

Lack of practice of polygamy has ruined us and our society. If you go to Pakistan, you will find thousands of unmarried women, divorced, widows... Who will marry them?

- Shaykh Madni 

The Unfortunate Story

Do you know, what happens when a girl reaches 25 and she couldn't get married? Her nervous system begins to break down. Her nervous system is weakened. By 30, she can't control herself and becomes hysterical. By 35 she's lost all hopes in this dunya and she starts to complain to Allah ...... 

This happens to the deeni Allah-Fearing Girls. Even deeni girls are then forced to do things that they wouldn't dare think about if they were married around 20.

And not every girl/woman in the world is as fortunate as you to be blessed with a nice husband, nice home, great children. PLEASE think about your Muslim Sisters whose Husband died leaving behind 3 children and her. Can you please put yourself in her shoes for ONE min. Only one min. I beg you to put yourself in her place for just One min and think. All of a sudden, you have no husband, you have 3 children, you have no qualifications, you are just a woman, you have stayed at home all your life, you don't know how to deal with men, you don't know how to talk with anyone except your husband...

All of a sudden, he left you ... all alone in this world ... Now you sit and cry ... When you regain your consciousness after 1 month ... These thoughts blow up your brain ... What will you do? Where will you go ??? You don't have a house... You were living on rent .... You have three kids to look after... Your father has already died. Your brother is married, he won't look after you.. Your mother is too old to support you...

What would you wish here at this moment?

After 6 months of living off selling your jewelery that your beloved husband bought you, you will turn towards your brother. You see he's too poor to help you. You wish you get a husband even if you live as his fourth wife! But....... Ta'addud is HARAM, it's worse than Zina. A nice molvi sufi brother sees your condition and he gathers courage to marry you as his second. He proposes you. You start to see some light. You become happy. You thank Allah. He promises you that insha'Allah after a week he will do Nikah with you...

But ....

A week passes, a month, an year.. nothing happens.. You ask around, where is that brother?

You find out that he went to his mother and told her that he is marrying again. His mother said to him, I will not forgive you for doing it. He informed his wife, she said I'll take a divorce if you do this, He went to his sister and looked up to her for some support. She said, If you do this, I will never talk to you again in my life .....

Then you are left to face the dark winds of the world yourself.....

Now tell me what you will do here?

You have nothing left, you've sold everything... You don't have any jewelry left.

You will take your children to the railway track and lie there with your kids so that the train kills you and you are relieved of all this nonsense.

Or

You will be forced to sell your honour to feed your children.....

End of story, you end up in Jahannum either way. You faced a Jahannum in this Dunia and you will face a Jahannum there.

The Molvi brother will enjoy a peaceful, fitnah-free jannat with his wife and kids in this dunia, and he's going to Jannat in the other too. Everyone will be happy, they saved him from a big evil fitnah. His wife is happy without a Co-wife. His mother is happy that her nose wasn't cut in the society. The sister is happy that she wouldn't get insulted by her in-laws because her brother got another wife.

- ( Shaykh Madni )

Important Sunnah

Why is it so that we strive to follow each and every sunnah, and thousands of bayans are made on following sunnah but when it comes to this important sunnah which is not just limited to your individual life but instead it has an impact on the muashra (Society) , we don't make any bayans, we don't tell people this is also an important sunnah, we don't tell them that it's the sunnah of all the prophets, majority of the sahaba, and esp its the Sunnah of Our Prophet صلي الله عليه وسلم ... We never tell people this. What we do is when some guy who wants to save himself from zina and comes to marry again, we advise him not to get a wife instead do zikr and do sabr. So why did Allah SWT allow it in the first place? Allah SWT should have told us to do zikr and sabr ... No need to get married...

- ( Shaykh Madni )