Wednesday 3 July 2013

Taddud is "evil" ?

In Pakistan, Dowry has become Farz. A girl cannot get married if her father doesn't give alot of dowry. Now tell me, you are a boy living in Pakistan. You have two options. If you marry this first girl, her parents will give you a furnished flat, a car, clothes, a job, cash.. Everything. You name it. The other girl, you don't get anything except some clothes and a watch. Considering the fact that the first girl is not as deeni as the second one. Honestly speaking who will you marry? The first one of course  No matter how many Fazaail you are told of a deeni girl you will never marry her. No matter what your deeni background is. This is what's happening in Pakistan

So who would marry a disabled deeni girl, when he has thousands of girls to choose from ? 

I've seen my aunts go on GIRL HUNTING for their sons. They would leave in the morning and return at night. They would have lists with them. Used to see like 5-10 girls daily. And what were the reasons to reject girls? Her nose is not right. Her face is a little fat. She is a little over weight. She's not perfect. She is a little dark. She's not very fair. She can't speak english. Her father doesn't have a respectable business. Well her mother was eww ......


Lack of practice of polygamy has ruined us and our society. If you go to Pakistan, you will find thousands of unmarried women, divorced, widows... Who will marry them?

- Shaykh Madni 


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