Saturday 29 June 2013

Silence

Asalamualikum,

Ramadan is getting near InshAllah & so its time to prepare for it. 

1) Talk less



Hazrat Shaikh Fareeduddin Attaar (Rahmatullahi 'alayh) explained most beautifully, perfectly and comprehensively the benefits of maintaining silence:

"In my mind does not enter any topic nobler than silence. Silence contains so many benefits that they cannot be explained. Silence makes hearts the treasure houses of pearls of wisdom. I learnt this hidden secret from the oyster's shell."


The drop of water enclosed in the oyster's shell is transformed into a pearl. Similarly, man's heart becomes a treasure house for pearls of wisdom by means of closure of the lips.


Wednesday 26 June 2013

Shaykh Ul Hind



During his his famous speech at Bahawalpur in 1983, Maulana Zia-ar-Rahman Farooqi رحمه الله narrated the following story concerning Hadhrat Shaykh al-Hind Maulana Mahmud al-Hasan رحمه الله :

Shaykh al-Hind Maulana Mahmud al-Hasan رحمه الله passed away in the year 1921 C.E. The body was lifted from the residence of Hakeem Ajmal Khan who was a well known Hakeem and a disciple of Shaykh al-Hind Maulana Mahmud al-Hasan رحمه الله . It was brought from Delhi to Deoband and when the cloth was removed from the waist for washing, it appeared that there was not felsh nor fat on it. The people began crying. When Sayyad Husain Ahmad Madni رحمه الله , who taught Hadeeth at Darul ‘Uloom Culcutta at the time came, the people related the matter to him. He wept and said, ”Shaykh al-Hind had prevented me from revealing this matter. In the jail of Malta, the British used to take my master to a lonely room and apply a red-hot to his waist and say, Mahmud al-Hasan! Deliver a fatwa in favour of the British. ” When he regained his senses he would say, ”O British! I am Bilal’s heir , my skin may melt away but I shall never deliver a fatwaa in favour of the british. ”




The Unfortunate Story

Do you know, what happens when a girl reaches 25 and she couldn't get married? Her nervous system begins to break down. Her nervous system is weakened. By 30, she can't control herself and becomes hysterical. By 35 she's lost all hopes in this dunya and she starts to complain to Allah ...... 


This happens to the deeni Allah-Fearing Girls. Even deeni girls are then forced to do things that they wouldn't dare think about if they were married around 20.

And not every girl/woman in the world is as fortunate as you to be blessed with a nice husband, nice home, great children.
PLEASE think about your Muslim Sisters whose Husband died leaving behind 3 children and her. Can you please put yourself in her shoes for ONE min. Only one min. I beg you to put yourself in her place for just One min and think. All of a sudden, you have no husband, you have 3 children, you have no qualifications, you are just a woman, you have stayed at home all your life, you don't know how to deal with men, you don't know how to talk with anyone except your husband...

All of a sudden, he left you ... all alone in this world ... Now you sit and cry ... When you regain your consciousness after 1 month ... These thoughts blow up your brain ... What will you do? Where will you go ??? You don't have a house... You were living on rent .... You have three kids to look after... Your father has already died. Your brother is married, he won't look after you.. Your mother is too old to support you...

What would you wish here at this moment?

After 6 months of living off selling your jewelery that your beloved husband bought you, you will turn towards your brother. You see he's too poor to help you. You wish you get a husband even if you live as his fourth wife! But....... Ta'addud is HARAM, it's worse than Zina. A nice molvi sufi brother sees your condition and he gathers courage to marry you as his second. He proposes you. You start to see some light. You become happy. You thank
Allah. He promises you that insha'Allah after a week he will do Nikah with you...

But ....

A week passes, a month, an year.. nothing happens.. You ask around, where is that brother?

You find out that he went to his mother and told her that he is marrying again. His mother said to him, I will not forgive you for doing it. He informed his wife, she said I'll take a divorce if you do this, He went to his sister and looked up to her for some support. She said, If you do this, I will never talk to you again in my life .....

Then you are left to face the dark winds of the world yourself.....

Now tell me what you will do here?

You have nothing left, you've sold everything... You don't have any jewelry left.

You will take your children to the railway track and lie there with your kids so that the train kills you and you are relieved of all this nonsense.

Or

You will be forced to sell your honour to feed your children.....

End of story, you end up in Jahannum either way. You faced a Jahannum in this Dunia and you will face a Jahannum there.

The Molvi brother will enjoy a peaceful, fitnah-free jannat with his wife and kids in this dunia, and he's going to Jannat in the other too. Everyone will be happy, they saved him from a big evil fitnah. His wife is happy without a Co-wife. His mother is happy that her nose wasn't cut in the society. The sister is happy that she wouldn't get insulted by her 
in-laws because her brother got another wife.

- ( Shaykh Madni )

Important Sunnah

Why is it so that we strive to follow each and every sunnah, and thousands of bayans are made on following sunnah but when it comes to this important sunnah which is not just limited to your individual life but instead it has an impact on the muashra (Society) , we don't make any bayans, we don't tell people this is also an important sunnah, we don't tell them that it's the sunnah of all the prophets, majority of the sahaba, and esp its the Sunnah of Our Prophet صلي الله عليه وسلم ... We never tell people this. What we do is when some guy who wants to save himself from zina and comes to marry again, we advise him not to get a wife instead do zikr and do sabr. So why did Allah SWT allow it in the first place? Allah SWT should have told us to do zikr and sabr ... No need to get married...

- ( Shaykh Madni )

Repentance

Malik bin Dinar RA narrated the following story about himself, saying, “I was a man who indulged in fun and enjoyment and suffered from an overwhelmingly addiction to wine. I bought a slave girl with whom I was very happy. She later gave birth to a beautiful girl who I loved dearly. I saw her progress from crawling to walking. Whenever I sat down for a drink, she would come and take the cup from my hands and spill the wine on the ground.

At the tender age of two years she died and left me grieving. It was the night of the fifteenth of Sha’ban and I fell asleep drunk. I saw in my dream that it was the Day of Resurrection and I came out of my grave with a huge sea serpent after me. I began to run but it chased me. The faster I ran, the faster it came. I passed by an old man dressed in clean garments who was very weak. I called out to him “O Sheikh, please save me from this monster!” He replied, “O my son, I am a very old man and this monster is too powerful for me, I cannot prevail from it. Perhaps if you carry on someone else may be able to help you.”

I continued to run, with the serpent still following me. I passed by a pit of blazing fire and was about to fall into it, but someone said, ”You are not its inhabitant,” On hearing this I turned and ran towards the mountain, I found that there were many gates to it and each gate had guards. A voice called out, ”Let this wretched man in before his enemy captures him.”

The gates opened and I saw a group of children, their faces shone like the moon, and among them was my little girl! She came towards me like a beam of light and with her right hand hit the serpant, which then fled. She sat by me and said, ”O my father, has not the time arrived for the heart of those who believe to submit to Allah’s reminder (Dhikr) and the truth (Quran) which has been revealed?” I replied, “O my child, do you know the Qur’an?” She answered, ”I lernt it from you.” I then asked, ”O my daughter, What are you doing here?” She said we are Muslim children who have died and we will live here untill the Day of Resurretion and wait for our parents.”

At this I said , ” O my daughter, who was that monster chasing and trying to kill me?” She said, ”O my father, that was your bad deeds, which you accumulated and could have destroyed you.” I then asked, ”And who was that weak old man?” She said, ”He was your good deeds, which you weakened to such an extent that they had no power to defend you. Therefore, O my father, repent and turn towards Allah, and be not among those who will perish,” Suddenly I woke up. I repented for my sins and turned to Allah.

The lesson we learn from this tory is that when young children die in infancy and their parents show patience and control of their emotions, it becomes a means of their salvation in the Hereafter. Allah Most High has taught us, when He tries us with an afflicton, to say: All praise is due to Allah. Truly, we are Allah’s and truly unto Him is the return.

Five Advices of Hadhrat Moulana Yusuf RA

What is very important is the five essential guidelines which Maulana Yusuf RA used to say:
كرتے رہو ڈرتے رہو روتے رہو مانگتے رہو مانگتے رہو
Karte rahow, Darte rahow, Rowte rahow, Mangte rahow, Maante rahow

"Carry on doing (the work), carry on fearing, carry on crying, carry on asking and carry on being obedient."

Analyzing this statement:

  • Firstly - We have to continue working because this is a responsibility which is given to us.
  • Secondly & Thirdly - We should fear and cry because we do not know upon which shortcoming or disregard for a particular principle (Usool) of this work that will result in us being deprived of this work.
  • Fourthly - What should we carry on crying and asking for? We should continue crying and begging for acceptance, steadfastness (istiqamat), to keep in conformance to mashwera, to become humble, etc.
  • Fifthly - Asking for obedience so that Allah Ta'ala keeps us in this work till death.

A memorable speech - Maulana Yusuf RA



The human is blind regarding the zaat of Allah. He is blind regarding the greatness of Allah, and he is blind in acknowledging the existence of Allah. If he has sight and can see, then it is only the land and property which he sees, only mountains, iron and metals. He has sight only when he sees the creation (makhluq), while he is blind when it comes to the Creator and the  zaat of the Allah.

The way the blind person should walk is to follow the voice of the person who can see. This is the secret of the success of the blind person. and miss it. The blind person cannot find the solutions to his situations due to his blindness. So a call is being made that all of the humans of this world are blind and the only one who can see is Muhammad (وسلم عليه ﷲ صلى). Allah summoned him to the heavens, and Allah showed him His Paradise and Hellfire. Allah showed him the benefits and losses of good and bad actions (amal).

Listen carefully, or you will greatly regret it once your eyes will open! Engrave in your hearts that success only lies in becoming useful in the method of the Messenger (وسلم عليه ﷲ صلى), and there is no success in the pieces and tatters of wealth and properties. You have to realize this! Your heart has to realize this before you die, because as soon as you die and enter the grave, the first question you will be asked is – “Who is the one who nurtured you?” If your effort was always towards this – that I am nurtured by my store, I am nurtured by my own efforts, I am nurtured by money – then you will not be able to say that “Allah is my Lord.” How can the tongue say what is not in the heart. Even if you were to recite “Allahu Akbar, Allah Akbar” millions of times a day, if your conviction (yaqeen) is on your shop, then this yaqeen will not count.






An Incident of Intense Love - Shah Hakeem Akhtar RA



Maulana Rumi RA,  narrated that Sultan Mahmood once summoned his sixtyfive ministers and ordered them to crush the most valuable gemstone in his treasury. They all declined on the grounds that they could not bring themselves to destroy the most valuable and celebrated piece of gemstone in the treasury. He then ordered Ayaaz, his closest vizier, to destroy the same gemstone. Ayaaz obeyed and soon the unique gemstone lay crushed into a thousand fragments. The ministers on seeing this expressed shock and anger at Ayaaz for breaking the most priceless gemstone. 

The Sultan also responded:

O Ayaaz, you are indeed audacious and ungrateful! Answer these ministers now and tell them why you broke the gemstone.

Ayaaz turned to the ministers and said:

Which is more important,
The royal decree or the gemstone?

From this incident Maulana Rumi RA  is advising us that if our heart breaks in
obeying the command of Allah Ta'ala then let it break. But the order and command of Allah Ta'ala should not break. These desires of lust that lurk in our hearts can be likened to the gemstones that appear very beautiful and pleasing to look at. 

Nevertheless, we should boldly crush them and uphold the commands of Allah
Ta'ala Who has ordered us to control our gazes. We should not look at beautiful women or handsome young lads, regardless of the compulsion that drives us to look at them. In front of the Divine Command of Allah Ta'ala, the heart has no value.


Monday 24 June 2013

Allah honors those He is pleased with - Shaykh Zulfiqar Ahmed DB


Dear Muslims,


If we put our trusts in Allah SWT then Allah SWT from all the means of sadness will give us happiness. Allah is All-Powerful.

Example from Quran:


The mother of Syedna Musa AS puts him in a basket & then puts the basket in the water. Her heart is troubled and is sad but because its a hukum of Allah SWT she does that & then puts her trust in Allah SWT. .Her motherly heart was filled with pain. However, she knew that Allah was much more merciful to her baby than she was.

Why was the heart troubled ? because of putting Syedna Musa in the water. So the “means” of causing trouble to the heart was water...

What was the consequence of this ? At the end, when Firaun’s time was about to finish , If ALLAH SWT wanted HE could have made the earth swallow Firaun like how it happened to Qaroon but instead ALLAH made him drown in the water.

Why Water ? Because initially it was the water that caused pain in the heart of one servant of Allah ... but she had put her trust in Allah, she did Tawakul & because of this Allah made the same water to be a cause for happiness for her.

This is my Allah. When he wishes to give something to a person no one in the world can stop Him. All honor & disgrace comes from Him.



Saturday 22 June 2013

Purpose of Man - Shaykh Zulfiqar Ahmed DB


Created to Worship

Man has been created to worship Allah SWT . When he becomes forgetful of this and becomes weak in his worship and connection with Allah SWT, he falls from his status and becomes lower than animals.

An Awakening Moment

Hadrat Bahlol Dana r.a  was walking by a waterfront when he saw some children playing, and saw another child sitting by himself lost in thought. Hadrat Bahlol approached this child and asked him why he was not playing with the others. The child looked at Hadrat Bahlol i and quoted a verse from the Holy Quran:
Does man think he will be left uncontrolled (without purpose)? (75:36)
Hadrat Bahlol was astonished to hear something so grave coming from what appeared to be a young child, and said upon reflection, "You seem to be very intelligent, give me some advice." The child recited some poetic verses:
O traveler, your time is short.
Make preparations before you come, and don't let them fall short.
Hadrat Bahlol started crying and said, "You are yet so young. It would be more understandable if you were someone older who was reflecting on his past sins. What is the reason for this lamenting at such a young age?"
The child looked at him and said, "I look at my mother lighting the fire for dinner. She uses small sticks to have the fire catch, and then puts in the larger sticks. I often think that Allah SWT too has to light the Fire of Hell, and I fear that He might give the command to have the little children thrown in before the adults. Bahlol, when I think upon this I cry."